Now I was an HR director twice before I became a principal and so I had the opportunity to see and learn from those managers who always seem to have safe hands in dealing with difficult situations but I learnt more from those who could manage to insult 8 people when there were only 6 in the room. The fundamental difference between the two seemed to be respect.
The safe-hands managers respected their staff as people. That meant that they didn’t make change for changes sake but only when they could demonstrate to themselves and to others that it made the organisation better or more secure in some way. They did not shy away from tough decisions or difficult conversations but the manner of the doing always took into account that there was a human being or human beings on the other side of that table.
They took decisions that meant that staff lost their jobs but they understood that this meant for some a fundamental life change. In essence they had the ability to put themselves on the other side of the desk and treated those they were dealing with the way that they would expect to be treated themselves.
Now that’s not rocket science, is it?